Love, Lies, and Cybercrime: How Scammers Steal More Than Just Your Heart
We don’t always want to admit it, but most of us have fallen for a scam at least once. Maybe you accidentally entered your email on a sketchy website or clicked a “too good to be true” deal. Perhaps you even sent money to someone who wasn’t who they claimed to be.
No matter the situation, the result feels the same: violated, anxious, and exposed. Having someone dig through your personal information is deeply unsettling, and it can happen to anyone.
The Human Side of Scams
Cybercriminals have learned that sometimes, the easiest way to steal data isn’t through hacking, it’s through emotions.
As Jon Clay, VP of Threat Intelligence at Trend Micro, puts it:
“Humans want to be loved, and they want to have admirers. So unfortunately, it’s a scam that’s used a lot.”
Romance scams are nothing new. Even before the internet, there were “Lonely Hearts” ads in newspapers, personal ads for those seeking love or marriage. While many led to genuine connections, others became tragic stories of deception and loss.
Today, those same tactics have gone digital. Romance scammers now use dating apps, social media, and email, becoming one of the most common email scams targeting everyday users, to manipulate victims emotionally before exploiting them financially.
A Bug Named “LOVE”
In May 2000, the world met one of the most infamous examples of emotional manipulation in cyberspace: the ILOVEYOU virus.
A 24-year-old student in the Philippines, Onel de Guzman, created what he thought was a simple way to steal passwords for internet access. What he unleashed instead was a global digital disaster.
The “ILOVEYOU” email appeared with the subject line “ILOVEYOU” and an attachment named “LOVE-LETTER-FOR-YOU.” When opened, the attachment unleashed a worm that corrupted files and automatically sent itself to everyone in the victim’s contact list.
The result?
- Over $5–8 billion in damages worldwide
- Government agencies like the Pentagon and the British Parliament temporarily shut down their email systems
- A wake-up call for the world about how fast malware could spread
Ironically, Guzman was never convicted at the time, and the Philippines had no laws against creating or spreading malware. (Don’t worry, they do now.)
Falling for Love and for Scams
The lesson from ILOVEYOU and every romance scam since is simple: emotions can make us vulnerable. Whether it’s love, fear, or curiosity, cybercriminals exploit human nature to get through our defenses.
But there’s good news: you don’t have to fall for it.
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✅ Intelligent spam and phishing filters
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Scammers are evolving every day, but so are we. Partner with Vodigy Networks and make sure the only thing spreading through your inbox is productivity.
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